I enjoy working as an escort because I have discovered so many new things about myself. People say that about a lot of jobs but they always mean boring things like ‘I am good at keeping a schedule’, ‘I am always on time’, ‘I like a challenge’. My job has all of those things as well but my job also has a whole lot more.
For example my job has taught me that I love Italy. Because of my line of work, when I travel for business it’s not board meetings and boredom. I get to see the world and share indulgences with fun, interesting gentlemen who have really opened me up to new experiences.
I never knew how much I liked red wine until I had a ‘date’ with this guy who had a cellar full of it. Some of it was vintage and he insisted that I share a bottle with him. Now I can’t get enough of the stuff. I’ve actually learned a lot about wine and dining from my work. It’s something I enjoy in my own time as well.
I know it’s naughty but I also enjoy talking politics. Only when my date brings it up first though! I have learned to hold a great conversation and I have a strong instinct for when to speak and when to hold my tongue. You learn people skills very quickly in my profession. If you don’t find conversations with other people interesting then you’re in the wrong line of work!
And who knew that I was into bondage? I mean, I never thought that I wouldn’t try it; I just wasn’t interested. But I ticked the box that said I’d give it a go and wow, am I glad I took a chance. I just love the feeling of dominating my partner and telling him what a bad boy he has been. I like to hear him beg for more and beg for me to stop. Sometimes I do and sometimes I don’t. It depends on what kind of game we are playing.
It would be dishonest to say that there aren’t some awkward moments, but overall I love my job. I like the mystery and the surprise that comes with meeting each new person and finding out about them. Being an escort has made me a more confident, well rounded individual and my job is my favourite little secret.